Looking for a man that has no luggage to claim

These are lyrics from a song that I heard long time ago and it was one of those "right on the spot" words at that time and also ever since.

This one blog is about a relationships or maybe better said about a pattern I have discovered in my lovelife for my past relationships. For many reasons and for many men in my life I feel like I am this sort of Red Cross Harbor and let me go little deeper in explaining why.

It feels like I'm running into a men that have some heavy baggage with them when they arrive in my life and as a strong person I am and because of my own experience with my mom I do have this ability to take care of their burdens for a while. Became the best friend, the always carrying and understanding person in their life. Staying through the storms and make sure that the light is always on in the lighthouse to light up the way. And in multiple occasions after gaining their powers and once they are able to drop the burden they leave for something better, more exciting or return back to where they come from baggage free and I keep wondering what maybe possibly went wrong. And there probably isn't anything wrong with them or us it is just the way it was in my life.

Until the day you, I mean I realized that I have let those people with their burdens into my life. I loved their potential I saw in them and I probably show them the right course but it is always me to let them in and to heal their struggles and to listen their issues.

And I believe that by realizing all this I need to change the policy of my harbor. Seeing and loving someone else's potential is nice but for the next one I will just make the custom control harder and the first question will be: "Do you have any luggage to claim Sir?" Because if you do I need to make sure you are carrying it yourself and that I will not be fixing your lost items or searching for your luggage in the wide open sea.

And if you happen to be the one without the luggage you are more then welcome to sail in the harbor with your whole in-one-piece person and stay as long as you want.

But if you are not the whole complete person I am looking for I am positive there are many other harbors out there you can seek an exile because this harbor of mine is a luggage free one.

So I will keep the light on in the lighthouse and will see what the wide open sea will bring to my shores.